
It is difficult to identify abuse. However, regardless of how minor an abused woman's injuries may seem, there are crucial areas of nursing assessment and intervention that must be addressed in order to avert potential death. There are often multiple old and new injuries, that may be overlooked, especially if the presenting problem is a facial injury or profuse bleeding.
You should approach the patient in an open and sensitive manner in order to determine whether injuries are the result of physical abuse. Interviewing the woman in private insures a more accurate response. Record the nature and extent of the injuries, using the word "alleged" when referring to the assault. Also, record whether or not the patient accepted the referral to a counsellor. Report findings to the physician and discuss an appropriate approach to the patient.
If you believe she is in danger, tell her. Help her plan an emergency exit.
Although police can be asked to accompany a woman going back home to retrieve personal belongings, encourage her to be prepared for the possibility of leaving home in a hurry. She should have necessary documents or photocopies ready, as well as important items such as:
Never recommend joint family or marital counselling in situations of emotional or physical abuse. It is dangerous for the woman and will not lead to a resolution that is in her interest. Encourage separate counselling for the man and woman if they want counselling.
Do not place yourself in danger by confronting the assaultive man.
Does she have a safe place to go or does she need an emergency shelter? Have phone numbers for local shelters handy.
Does she have a lawyer? She will need good, sympathetic legal representation. Provide her with the names of some lawyers or legal aid.
What supports does she have? She will need the support of those who understand the experience of wife assault. Ask her if she would like you to call some community support groups or give her the numbers to call herself.
It is critical that you establish a system for ongoing contact. Can she be reached at home? Perhaps, a signal strategy will be needed such as doctor's secretary calling. Who can you contact in case of emergency?